If someone shows you who they are the first time, believe them!

I am sorry, but I cannot stand to see women think that it is okay for men to use them as punching bags or door mats.

It infuriates me on so many levels because it is not okay! You are worth way more than that.

A man is never going to change, unless he wants to change. So stop thinking that you going to change him because it’s not going to happen!


Not too long ago, I witnessed a woman being hit to the ground and kicked to the floor in a public setting. It was in a place where you would think it is safe because there was police and security patrolling all over.

When another man saw what this guy was doing and wanted to step in to help, the guy pulled out a knife and asked him what do you want to do?

Is this really the world we live in today? Where men want to go on a power trip, to show who’s boss?


Being a woman who has been in numerous toxic relationships, I have learnt that if a man disrespects you the first time, let that be a lesson that it will most definitely not be last.

Get yourself out early, before it is too late.

Stay true to yourself.


Outfit Details:

Shoes, bodysuit and satin kimono: The Fix

Jeans: LevisLevis

Photography done by Radclifffe Roelse and Courtney Roelse from Roelse events

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