Let yourself go for who?

How many men and women out there get so comfortable in their relationships that they start to let themselves go?

In the early stages of any relationship we tend to go out more, eat more and drink more.  Then months later we find ourselves laying around on the couch in a comfort zone.

Many of us get so comfortable that we become lazy and stop doing the things we use to do.  When this happens I usually hear the excuse, my partner should love me for who I am and not for the way I look.

Firstly, you are not doing this for him,  you are doing it for yourself.

People can tell me what they like but let’s face it, when you meet a man, he usually doesn’t like you for your personality upfront.  Men are visual beings so your physical appearance is what attracts them to you in the first place.  Not your personality.

Stop letting yourselves go.  You are worth the effort, so don’t stop putting in the effort.

Even though you are in a relationship, it doesn’t mean that there aren’t things that still need to be maintained.

Don’t get too comfortable.

Stay true to yourself.


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Outfit Details:

Sunglasses:  Luscious By Lauren

Pleather Bodysuit:  The Fix

Photography done by Radcliffe Roelse and Courtney Roelse from Roelse Events
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