What happened to the days when people actually got to know each other first before sex became the topic of discussion?
Don’t you miss the good old days where guys actually used to court the girls before the girl would even speak to them?
Does this still happen or has it become non existent too?
Nowadays, social media has made things so much easier for guys. They don’t have to steal phone to call a girl from home anymore, they don’t have to speak for hours on the phone just to hear the girl’s voice or even bother to see her in person.
They can see and hear everything they need to, directly on the DM. Things like pictures, video calling and voice notes have taken the place of these things.
Guys are no longer old school, they do things the new age way.
Everything you can think of goes down in the DM. The guys are so thirsty, they are like hungry predators on the prowl. Their requests run from underwear to nude selfies and even selfies of your genitalia.
Some guys are even so desperate they send private part selfies to random girls in the hopes that someone will respond positively to it. Who even does that?
The excuse is always; “Oops, sorry I sent it to the wrong person”. Brother please, we know what you are doing and we’re not stupid. If a girl doesn’t know you, why would she want to see your private parts at random? That is disgusting!
My question is: Why are we making it so easy for guys to get what they want? Some guys don’t even need to work hard for it and that’s scary.
Ladies please listen to me, respect yourself and know your worth. Don’t make it easy for a guy to get what they want.
You are more than a sex symbol, you are a Queen. Don’t allow them to degrade your brand.
I don’t know about you, but maybe I am just old school. I believe that one must first read the menu before you choose to eat. In other words, get to know the person first before you decide to open yourself up to them.
Stay true to yourself.
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